Selena Gomez & Taylor Swift’s Epic BFF Timeline: From Jonas Love to Red Carpet Glam

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Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift’s friendship has endured over a decade of unwavering support and shared milestones.

Their story began in 2008 when fate (and the Jonas Brothers) brought them together—Swift was briefly dating Joe Jonas while Gomez had a short-lived romance with his younger brother, Nick. What started as a lighthearted coincidence quickly blossomed into one of Hollywood’s most enduring and cherished friendships.

Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez dazzle at the premiere of Another Cinderella Story on September 14, 2008—Taylor stuns in a white beaded gown, while Selena opts for a sleek satin dress with pleated detailingTaylor Swift and Selena Gomez dazzle at the premiere of Another Cinderella Story on September 14, 2008—Taylor stuns in a white beaded gown, while Selena opts for a sleek satin dress with pleated detailing (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

Selena & Taylor’s First Meeting: A Jonas Brothers Connection

Selena spoke about how she and Swift met in a 2017 interview with KIIS FM UK. “We actually dated the Jonas Brothers together! It was hysterical,” Gomez told the hosts about dating the musician brothers.

“It was amazing because she was the girl with the big curly hair and all the bracelets and the cowboy boots. And I was definitely up-and-coming, and we just clicked,” she added. “It was the best thing we got out of those relationships.”

Beyond Fame: Selena & Taylor’s Unshakable Bond

In a January 2020 interview with the Wall Street Journal, Gomez described their close relationship. “She taught me a lot about how I should be treated at a young age.”

Selena made clear that the pair “don’t necessarily feel the need to post about everything” they do together, so some parts of their friendship will rightfully remain out of the spotlight.

“She has showed up for me in ways that I would have never expected,” Selena said of her loyal friend Taylor.

Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez keep it casual yet stylish for a night out at Pinz Bowling in Studio City on March 23, 2010—Taylor rocks a graphic tee with black shorts and ballet flats, while Selena goes for an edgy-chic look in ripped skinny jeans, ankle boots, and a tailored blazerTaylor Swift and Selena Gomez keep it casual yet stylish for a night out at Pinz Bowling in Studio City on March 23, 2010—Taylor rocks a graphic tee with black shorts and ballet flats, while Selena goes for an edgy-chic look in ripped skinny jeans, ankle boots, and a tailored blazer (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

“Flown in because I was hurt and was going through something. Stuff that was going on with my family. It’s been proven year after year and in every moment of my life that she is one of my best friends in the world. We don’t agree on everything, but we respect each other with everything.”

“I knew from when I met her I would always have her back,” Swift said in the same interview. “In my life, I have the ability to forgive people who have hurt me. But I don’t know if I can forgive someone who hurts her.”

Through the years, Selena and Taylor have supported each other not just in their personal lives but also in their careers. Whether attending award shows together or cheering each other on from the sidelines, their friendship has remained a source of strength and inspiration.

Selena, known for her effortless style both on and off the red carpet, once again captivated audiences in January 2020 when she attended the premiere of her new film, Dolittle. Stepping out in a stunning Givenchy couture look, she proved that her fashion evolution is just as impressive as her career milestones.

Selena Gomez Dazzles in Givenchy at the Dolittle Premiere

In January 2020, Selena hit the red carpet for the premiere of her new movie Dolittle at the Regency Village Theatre in Westwood, California.

Selena Gomez wearing Messika Catcher diamond earrings for the premiere of her new movie DolittleSelena Gomez wearing Messika Catcher diamond earrings for the premiere of her new movie Dolittle held at the Regency Village Theatre in Westwood, California, on January 11, 2020 (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

The then-27-year-old actress/singer donned a look from the Givenchy Fall 2019 Haute Couture Collection, which included black suede Miu Miu platform sandals and Messika jewelry.

Selena Gomez donned a pink sheer turtleneck top and a voluminous black skirt from the Givenchy Fall 2019 Haute Couture collectionSelena Gomez donned a pink sheer turtleneck top and a voluminous black skirt from the Givenchy Fall 2019 Haute Couture collection (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

BFFs on the Red Carpet: Selena & Taylor’s Unforgettable 2016 Grammys Night

In February 2016, Selena Gomez brought a date to the red carpet of the 2016 Grammys — and no, it wasn’t Justin Bieber (seriously, people, move on).

Selena Gomez complementing her voluminous curls and smoky eye makeup with dazzling Norman Silverman diamond hoop earrings for a touch of timeless glamourSelena Gomez complements her voluminous curls and smoky eye makeup with dazzling Norman Silverman diamond hoop earrings for a touch of timeless glamour (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

The singer showed up at the event with none other than her BFF Taylor Swift, who bagged three Grammys, including Best Video for “Bad Blood.”

Selena Gomez dazzles at the 2016 Grammys in a shimmering sapphire Calvin Klein gown, styled with voluminous curls, smoky eyes, and sparkling Norman Silverman earringsSelena Gomez dazzles at the 2016 Grammys in a shimmering sapphire Calvin Klein gown, styled with voluminous curls, smoky eyes, and sparkling Norman Silverman earrings (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

Selena wore a glitter cutout dress by Calvin Klein because she “wanted to feel like a blue sapphire rock / sparkly ball.”

Selena Gomez completes her Grammys look with sleek silver Giuseppe Zanotti "Coline" sandals, showcasing her dark pedicure beneath her sparkling sapphire gownSelena Gomez completes her Grammys look with sleek silver Giuseppe Zanotti “Coline” sandals, showcasing her dark pedicure beneath her sparkling sapphire gown (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

The singer complemented her CK creation with Norman Silverman earrings, a David Webb ring, a Rauwolf clutch, and silver Giuseppe Zanotti “Coline” sandals.

Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift share a fun red carpet moment at the 2016 Grammys, highlighting their height difference as Taylor towers in a bold coral and pink two-piece while Selena stuns in a shimmering sapphire gownSelena Gomez and Taylor Swift share a fun red carpet moment at the 2016 Grammys, highlighting their height difference as Taylor towers in a bold coral and pink two-piece while Selena stuns in a shimmering sapphire gown (Credit: Adriana M. Barraza / WENN / FayesVision / Instar)

Taylor Swift is 4.5 inches (11.43 cm) taller than Selena Gomez, measuring 5ft 9 ¼ (175.9 cm), and Selena is 5ft 4 ¾ (164.5 cm).

This height difference is often noticeable in their red carpet photos, especially when Taylor wears heels, further accentuating the gap. Despite the contrast, their close friendship and complementary styles always steal the spotlight!

Selena Gomez and Taylor Swift showcase their striking height difference at the 2016 Grammys, with Selena dazzling in a floor-length sequined Calvin Klein gown and Taylor towering in a bold Versace two-piece featuring a cropped bandeau top and voluminous pink skirtSelena Gomez and Taylor Swift showcase their striking height difference at the 2016 Grammys, with Selena dazzling in a floor-length sequined Calvin Klein gown and Taylor towering in a bold Versace two-piece featuring a cropped bandeau top and voluminous pink skirt (Credit: Lionel Hahn / AbacaUSA / Startraksphoto)

The adorable BFFs got ready for the Grammys together, which made the video of the two freaking out over T-Swizzle’s win possible.

Selena also tweeted a shoutout to Taylor’s celebratory video, sharing her amazement over participating in “Bad Blood.”

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Selena Gomez has consistently showcased her impeccable style by frequently donning Giuseppe Zanotti footwear at various high-profile events.

Selena Gomez’s Best Giuseppe Zanotti Shoe Moments

Here are some of her most memorable appearances:

Selena Gomez at the 2011 Billboard Music Awards

  • Event: 2011 Billboard Music Awards
  • Outfit: Selena turned heads in a sultry Dolce & Gabbana waist cutout halter gown, exuding a mature and sophisticated vibe.
  • Footwear: She complemented her ensemble with red Giuseppe Zanotti bejeweled bow suede sandals, adding a pop of color and elegance to her look.
  • More Details: Selena’s stunning 2011 Billboard Music Awards look

Chic in Leopard-Print Cap-Toe Pumps

  • Event: BBC Radio 1’s The Radio 1 Breakfast Show
  • Outfit: While in London, Selena opted for a chic ensemble featuring skinny jeans, a loose black top, and a white blazer, perfectly balancing casual and sophisticated elements.
  • Footwear: She elevated her outfit with Giuseppe Zanotti leopard-print calf hair pumps, distinguished by striking blue pointed-toe caps, showcasing her bold fashion choices.
  • More Details: Selena’s bold London street style moment

Elegant in Silk Satin Bow Sandals

  • Event: 2010 GRAMMY Nominations Concert Live
  • Outfit: Selena graced the event in an asymmetric corset maxi dress from ASOS, exuding elegance and modernity.
  • Footwear: She paired her dress with Giuseppe Zanotti silk satin bow sandals, adding a touch of luxury and sophistication to her ensemble.
  • More Details: Selena’s refined look at the Grammy Nominations Concert

Stylish in Cap-Toe Pumps on ‘Late Show with David Letterman’

  • Event: ‘Late Show with David Letterman’ Appearance
  • Outfit: Selena showcased a sophisticated look with a Versus Versace two-piece ensemble, featuring a long-sleeve high-neck crop top and a high-waisted double-slit skirt.
  • Footwear: She accentuated her outfit with Giuseppe Zanotti cap-toe pumps, adding a sleek and modern touch to her appearance.
  • More Details: Selena’s chic Versace look on Letterman

These moments highlight Selena Gomez’s affinity for Giuseppe Zanotti’s designs, reflecting her versatile and evolving fashion sense.

In October 2010, Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez were spotted in London. No, they didn’t go clubbing. Instead, the two girlfriends went for a nice dinner at Jamie Oliver’s new Italian restaurant in Covent Garden and then for some ice cream. It was all good and clean fun.

Fashion Alert: How Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez Rocked Coats as Mini Dresses in London

Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez arriving for dinner at Jamie's Italian restaurant in Covent GardenTaylor Swift and Selena Gomez arriving for dinner at Jamie’s Italian restaurant in Covent Garden in London on October 21, 2010 (Credit: Manuil Yamalyan / WENN)

Interestingly, the two were dressed alike. Both were in coats, Selena in a black swing coat with a cape and Taylor in a classic khaki version.

On her London outing on October 21, 2010, Taylor Swift elegantly donned a Myne Hilliary silk dress in bird print, complemented with Topshop 120 denier navy tights, a Topshop knot tassel scarf in burnt orange, Bass Glenbrook Oxfords, and a Ralph Lauren Larchmont cross-body bagOn her London outing on October 21, 2010, Taylor Swift elegantly donned a Myne Hilliary silk dress in bird print, complemented with Topshop 120 denier navy tights, a Topshop knot tassel scarf in burnt orange, Bass Glenbrook Oxfords, and a Ralph Lauren Larchmont cross-body bag (Credit: Manuil Yamalyan / WENN)

I like how they opted to button their coats all the way up and wear them like mini dresses, and I find the look very cute and sexy.

On her London outing on October 21, 2010, Selena Gomez elegantly sported a BCBGMAXAZRIA double-breasted cape coat, accessorized with a Romygold Biker Slash tote and chic Ruthie Davis Sushi Roll peep-toe pumpsOn her London outing on October 21, 2010, Selena Gomez elegantly sported a BCBGMAXAZRIA double-breasted cape coat, accessorized with a Romygold Biker Slash tote and chic Ruthie Davis Sushi Roll peep-toe pumps (Credit: Manuil Yamalyan / WENN)

Take a cue from these girls, wear a coat like a dress, belt it on the waist, pin a brooch to it, and don’t be afraid to try different looks.

Taylor Swift Volunteers as Flower Girl for Selena Gomez’s Engagement Celebration

On December 11, 2024, Selena Gomez announced her engagement to music producer Benny Blanco on Instagram, sharing close-up photos of her diamond ring.

Her celebrity friends, including Taylor Swift, celebrated the news in the comments. Swift playfully volunteered to be the flower girl, writing, “Yes I will be the flower girl.”

 

 
 
 
 
 
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